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Play nice
Inspired by Firefox Myths:
Earlier this year, I dropped an interesting quote to my friend Mark, who ran with it and blogged this: What not to do next.
Yesterday I wrote a post entitled “The evil in design”. It’s a title that came to me whilst writing the post, because at the crux of our client’s email was a simple question. I could have replied straight away with the answer, but instead I gave some thought to the various consequences of answering in particular ways. I considered the various paths of development this particular requirement might take and started formulating a complicated reply. Such a reply, if sent, might have turned our client away from us, or led to more discussions. Neither would have been good for us or our client, because now was not the time to talk about these issues.
As Paul Arden recommends, “Give [the client] what he wants and he may well give you what you want”. So this is why I replied the way I did.
This all comes down to distraction, which, according to Mark is “one of Satan’s chief tactics”. Now, I’m not about to go off on a religious tangent. This is not what I do – especially here – but, let’s for a moment consider that all distractions are bad news. This idea backs up the tenets of Getting Things Done – don’t worry about what you have to do later, n steps down the road. Just deal with what needs to be done now, because there is always one next step. And there’s always only one next step. Ruminating on things doesn’t get you anywhere (least of all historical things) and your time is finite. Distractions provide the illusion that there are multiple next steps, multiple things to do. But you can always only do one thing at one time. Choosing to do one particular thing and choosing it quickly kills distraction.
Now, let’s try the converse: assume that everything bad is a distraction. Does this assumption work? Well, certainly I think it’s easier to be good than bad, or rather being good is no more difficult than being bad. Don’t believe me? Look around the world: consider the amount of effort, resources and expenditure it takes to do bad things. Why aren’t the people involved doing good instead? Because they are distracted – they are under the illusion that it’s an easier way of living or getting what they want, but it’s not. This applies equally well to governments as it does to individuals.
So, play nice and be good. It’s easy and you’ll feel better for it.
